wavyhaired (
wavyhaired) wrote in
addme2025-11-23 03:49 pm
Hello! I'm Diana. :)
Name: Diana
Age: 40
I mostly post about: trying to build a gentler life, small daily victories and struggles, mental health, and job-hunting reflections
My hobbies are: walking in quiet neighborhoods, beginner yoga, journaling, solo dining adventures, reading nonfiction, and classical guitar.
I'm looking to meet people who: are kind, nonjudgmental, gentle, and thoughtful. People who understand being in transition and trying to build a life that feels more like their own.
My posting schedule tends to be: more or less daily.
When I add people, my dealbreakers are: cruelty, judgment, political hostility, and unsolicited advice.
Before adding me, you should know: I live with bipolar disorder and write openly about managing it while working full-time. I would love to meet other neurodivergent folks.
Age: 40
I mostly post about: trying to build a gentler life, small daily victories and struggles, mental health, and job-hunting reflections
My hobbies are: walking in quiet neighborhoods, beginner yoga, journaling, solo dining adventures, reading nonfiction, and classical guitar.
I'm looking to meet people who: are kind, nonjudgmental, gentle, and thoughtful. People who understand being in transition and trying to build a life that feels more like their own.
My posting schedule tends to be: more or less daily.
When I add people, my dealbreakers are: cruelty, judgment, political hostility, and unsolicited advice.
Before adding me, you should know: I live with bipolar disorder and write openly about managing it while working full-time. I would love to meet other neurodivergent folks.

Hey Diana~!! :)
you sound really, really nice and kind, and I would like to give friending you a try, if you are okay with this? I won't be angry if you don't want to, though ^^.
My name is Rina, I am 41 years old, and living in Germany. In some way, we seem to be in the same boat. I am currently job-hunting, too, and even though I have two important job interviews this week, I am still kinda nervous and want to keep looking for specific jobs, too. I also want to be gentler (or at least more understanding) to myself, and I think this is a really good starting point for a happier life, because after all, working against myself all the time like I am my own worst enemy (It often felt like this, unfortunately..:) is the worst thing I could do for my mental health.
I struggle with my mental health, too. Mainly recurring severe depressive episodes, as well as C-PTSD, Borderline Personality Disorder, and EDNOS for now. It has been a wild ride -___-, but I got so used to hating myself throughout my life, that I really felt like I needed a switch of perspective, even though I'd sometimes fall back into old thought patterns.
Moreover, I also enjoy playing the guitar :). Not classical guitar, tbh, rather the electric guitar and a lot of rock or random songs stuck in my mind, but I love anything to do with (making) music. I usually gravitate towards non-fiction when reading, and I'd like to start journaling (on paper) again, too.
Either way - I would love to support you through the transition to a gentler life, and to be your friend :).
Re: Hey Diana~!! :)
Good luck on your upcoming interviews!
It’s a real comfort to meet someone who’s also navigating mental health challenges. I learn so much from hearing how other people live, cope, and move forward.
I love that we both play guitar!