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Name: Nix/Nyx or other names (they/them or any pronouns).

Age: 28.

I mostly post about: I'll probably post about my life the most consistently. I might also post writings and about my creative projects in general. Overall, I think I'll mainly use this blog/journal to process thoughts or ideas and to help me remember things, as I have a terrible memory. Maybe I'll post song lyrics and/or poetry I come up with, too.

My hobbies are: Making music, listening to music, gaming (I play a variety of games), reading (manga, graphic novels, articles, books, etc.), writing, streaming (I'm currently streaming as a VTuber), content creation, and more. I also recently started drawing again with digital art and go on the occasional hike.

My fandoms are: This is going to be embarrassing, but I'm not sure what counts as a "fandom." Maybe I'm overthinking the definition? Either way, I don't think I am a part of any specific fandoms right now, but that could change. Some things I like that I can think of right now are Okami (for nostalgia reasons) and Baldur's Gate 3.

I'm looking to meet people who: I'm mostly looking for more people around my age. It's a plus if you're also LGBTQIA+, disabled, or neurodivergent, and it's even better if we share interests.

My posting schedule tends to be: This time around (I used this website a while back), I'll probably post pretty sporadically overall. In the past, there were points where I almost posted daily, so that might happen again.

When I add people, my dealbreakers are: I'm okay-ish with differing opinions as long as it's nothing too major, but that's probably a thin line I don't even fully understand yet. (I like keeping my mind open to new ideas if others will do the same.) However, I do draw the line at right-winged people and centrists. That's all I'm going to put for now. Oh, and please be at least 20 years old. Thank you.

Before adding me, you should know: I struggle with my mental and physical health and will probably post about that a lot. For similar reasons (mostly related to my energy levels and shyness), I also have a hard time commenting on posts, but I'm trying to overcome that. Responding to DMs can be even worse, even though I do appreciate messages from people.

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I am a little older than you but bipolar and gay. If that doesn't bug you, may I add you?

Sure!

Thank you!

>> I might also post writings and about my creative projects in general. <<

You might like the Writing communities. More generally, consider

justcreate,

get_knitted, and

crafty.

>> Making music, listening to music, gaming <<

For music there are

onesongaday,

beautifulmechanical, and

tfc_musicianships. There are plenty of Games communities.

>> I also recently started drawing again with digital art and go on the occasional hike.<<

See the Art communities.

For rural hikes:

common_nature

For urban hikes:

flaneurs

>>This is going to be embarrassing, but I'm not sure what counts as a "fandom."<<

A fandom is a bunch of people who like the same entertainment -- book, author, movie, television series, video game, sport team, music, whatever. You can be a fan as audience, creator, or both. It's flexible. Don't worry about it. Do use the Interests page to search for stuff you like. You can find fandom on

fandomcalendar.

>>I also have a hard time commenting on posts, but I'm trying to overcome that.<<

Some communities are mostly or wholly designed for lurking, with just one or a few people who post. Others are places for everyone to hang out and post. Some have a daily or weekly check-in post that folks can answer if they wish.

awesomeers has a Just One Thing post where you can say what you accomplished today, no planning or goals required.

get_knitted has a check-in post for creative activities in general.

Some individual blogs are very lurk-friendly -- there's a handful who post full content here, instead of just links offsite, which is very nice if you like to look at pictures or read stories. There's a couple of potters who post pictures of their crafts, plenty of gardeners, some folks who post travelogues.

My blog is highly active with a lot of writing and nature related stuff. I also link to interesting articles, like science or good news or activism. There's plenty of conversation but lurking is fine -- I have people who use me as a newsfeed.

This is really helpful! Thank you!

I'm happy I could help. If you get stuck,

newcomers is a good resource to try.

Hi Nyx (I dig that name, btw)!
My name is Tina, I'm 37 years old - hope that's not too old - and live in Germany with my cat Lucy. I'm queer (mostly into women), deal with some mental illnesses and am very probably on the autism spectrum, it is just very difficult to get an official diagnosis here :(

I am also a big lover of music and reading and skew very left politically so you won't read any bigoted things from me here, at least not on purpose (we all have our blind spots but I am always learning and willing to reflect myself).

Would you like to give it a try?

Hi Tina! Nice to meet you. 37 isn't too old at all. I'd be happy to add you!

...and skew very left politically so you won't read any bigoted things from me here, at least not on purpose (we all have our blind spots but I am always learning and willing to reflect myself).
Same here! It's always refreshing to hear people admit we all (or at least most of us) have weak points in our knowledge and have room to grow.

It's nice to meet you too! I added you back :)

You seem interesting! My name's April, and I'm 45. Want to become friends???

Sure! I just read your profile, and I can't be certain that I'll consistently comment. But if you're still comfortable with being friends, I'd be happy to!

Hello, you seem lovely and I'm trying to get into posting again, I added you :)

Yay! I just read your post in this group, and you seem really nice, too! I'll add you back.

Hi there
I like people that are into poetry, also Okami is a banger of a game
Can i add you? You seem cool.

Sure! I've realized I'd rather know someone for a bit before allowing access, but we can definitely subscribe to each other for now if you're good with that!

No problem at all.
I dont restrict acess to anything I post neither do I want to intrude on the privacy of other so it's okay!

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