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noey | a faint & faraway sound ([personal profile] thelittleone) wrote in [community profile] addme2025-01-13 01:34 am

so i guess this is where i introduce myself

Hello! Recently came back to Dreamwidth after a hot minute (though I've been around on and off the last couple of years mostly because of DWRP). Hoping to meet new folks and make connections.

Name: Noey

Age: 39 (I turn 40 this year wiw)

I mostly post about: Slice-of-life shenanigans, writing, reflections on anything from dreams I had this week, mental health, ruminations on anything under the sun. My voidling cat, my dog, occasional to-do lists. Poetry, my own projects. Photos.

My hobbies are: Writing, amateur photography, dance, books! I'm also an avid gamer although I don't get to game as much as I'd like given how busy life has been of late. Oh, and I recently got back into physical journaling because I have so many stickers and having something tactile helps.

My fandoms are: I have... a lot. Top of mind are -- Arcane this is going to be a thing for awhile, Pacific Rim, Marvel, Doctor Who. Youtube DIY Interior Design (not sure if it counts but ah well). I like a lot of things, basically.

I'm looking to meet people who: Just people who might be interested to build connections. I used to journal extensively on LJ and then here, post-great migration to other platforms. I miss that kind of community and just meeting new people. I'm also redefining my relationship with social media because the always-on 24/7/365 thing is just... no.

My posting schedule tends to be: I think it's safe to say that I'm likely to post at least once a week, possibly everyday, maybe even more than once. My longform babble goes on Dreamwidth, CliffsNotes go to my physical planner. So expect to see me pop up on your reading page a fair amount.

When I add people, my dealbreakers are: I'm at the age where I'm just tired and have few ducks left to give. So the usuals: drama, doomscrolling, extremes from either end.

Before adding me, you should know:
  • I'm Filipina and I speak 2 other languages outside of English. Sometimes, I may reply in multilingual fashion in the comments to friends of mine who are also on the platform. I am, however, always happy to translate, just ask!
  • I'm bi/queer in a straight-presenting relationship. I've encountered folks who've taken issue with that, from either end. I know it might be weird of me to bring this up now, but I've found it helpful to my sanity to just be upfront.
  • I write reflections on mental health quite a bit. I was diagnosed with C-PTSD a little over 5 years ago and while I've made loads of progress, a mental health journey is an ongoing thing. Rest assured that I utilize cuts on my posts and include content warnings to those who want to skip over that.
  • I observe friending amnesty i.e. if you add me and decide that I'm not your cup of tea, all good, thank you for stopping by and giving connecting a shot.
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    [personal profile] in_sufficientdata 2025-01-12 07:28 pm (UTC)(link)
    Hi, I'd love to friend you and get to know you! If you'd like you can check out my post on this comm here.
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    [personal profile] yourivy 2025-01-13 05:42 pm (UTC)(link)
    Hi Noey, you sound like a nice and interesting person & I would like to get to know you :)
    I also post about my daily life, love books and can relate to mental health struggles, so no judgment on that from me - and I'm also queer and have a lovely cat. Photos are always nice to look at, as well, I love getting glimpses into others' lives.
    (Oh, and I don't mean this to sound "exoticizing" or the like, but it would be interesting to me to get to know somebody from the Philippines since it is a country I don't know much about/rarely hear from.)

    My name is Tina, btw, I turn 37 this year and live in Germany :)
    Friends?
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    [personal profile] penshuttergirl 2025-01-13 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
    We have several things in common. Wanna connect?
    kyararose: (Dolphin)

    [personal profile] kyararose 2025-01-14 11:10 pm (UTC)(link)
    I wasn't officially diagnosed with C-PTSD but a counselor did mention it to me and sounds like I have it... I got a book for christmas about how to recover from it!
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    [personal profile] kyararose 2025-01-15 07:18 pm (UTC)(link)
    It's called Re-regulated by Anna Runkle. I'm really excited about starting the book and seeing if it works for me.
    kyararose: (Rodney 2)

    Re: i missed this comment, apologieeees

    [personal profile] kyararose 2025-01-20 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
    I loved the book. Now I'm going to read it again and work through it.