Hello!

[rebecca_selene]

Name: Rebecca

Age: mid 30s

Location: northeast USA

About me: she/her, partnered, migraineur, childfree, AuDHD (finding this out in my 30s has been a wild ride, let me tell you)

I mostly post about: fanfic and fandom, aiming to post about my interests more widely

My hobbies are: video games (The Sims, Fallout, Stardew Valley, Strange Horticulture), crafting (papercrafts, junk journaling, sewing, cross stitch, sometimes painting and polymer clay), creative writing, reading (primarily fantasy, sci-fi, nonfiction, but I read pretty widely)

My interests are: witchcraft, paganism, tarot, tea, animals, organizing things, mini versions of things, ancient Greece, heavy metal music, All Elite Wrestling

My fandoms are: the video games mentioned above, Disney animated universe, lots of small fandoms

I'm looking to meet people who: have interests and experiences in common with me and are maybe even open to building a friendship

My posting schedule tends to be: sporadic, though I'm hoping to become more frequent

When I add people, my dealbreakers are: minors (under 18), racism, sexism, ableism, queerphobia, antisemitism, Islamophobia, other forms of prejudice/discrimination, cultural appropriation, anti-science, anti-vaxxers, anti-choice

Before adding me, you should know:
-My brand of witchcraft is placebo/skeptical. Maybe it's supernatural, maybe it's psychological, but I don't really need to know answers to find it magical regardless. That's what works for me personally, and I'm always curious to see what works for others.
-The last episode of Merlin BBC broke me and I've been struggling to interact in fandom as enthusiastically as I used to ever since.

Comments

[mapsedge]

I got my diagnosis at 40, the same day our daughter got hers. The psychologist told us she was and said, "It comes through the father, usually." My wife looked at me in disbelief. "You guys didn't know?" he says. My wife breathed, "So THAT's why you're like that." It was a revelatory moment for both of us.

[rebecca_selene]

Yeah, it sucks for us that it took so long to understand ourselves, but I am glad information about autism/ADHD is more widely known now.

[earthspirits]

We share several interests (including paganism / witchcraft, tarot and tea, our animal friends, history, writing and art / crafting.

Would you like to mutually add each other to our access / subscription circles?

Anyway, best wishes to you!

[rebecca_selene]

Yes!

[earthspirits]

Thank you for adding me, have just added you back! :D

[liminaltime]

I'm also late-discovered AuDHD (which definitely is a wild ride and makes you see your whole life differently!) It looks like we have some things in common, like being into crafting (not childfree though; I do post about my kid). May I add you?

[rebecca_selene]

Sure!

[ranawinter]

We have quite a few things in common, migraines, childfree, stardew valley, tea, heavy metal to name but a few.. I am also from the North East, but my North East is the one in England.

[rebecca_selene]

Added!

[kraken_galactico]

I'm also childfree and in my mid-30s, and we seem to have a lot of common interests and hobbies (Sims, Merlin, Disney, miniatures, animals, wrestling, crafting, creative writing). And, based on your dealbreakers & such, we likely have very similar views on a lot of things.

Care to be mutuals?

[rebecca_selene]

Yes! Added!

[annofowlshire]

Hiiiii. I'm not into fandom but otherwise we have a lot of things in common--pagany-witchy things (including the placebo/skeptical aspect), cozy games, crafting, reading, writing....

I don't know if your childfree-ness extends to "don't want to read about other's children" (which is 100% valid) so I'll note that I have a 5 y/o and post about him and parenting in cycles--sometimes not much, sometimes a lot if there's something going on :)

[rebecca_selene]

Hi! Thanks for the note, but it's totally fine. I probably won't have much to say on those posts, not having any experience, but it's so nice to meet another skeptical witch. Added!

[beach_baby]

Hi there!

We have a few things in common, mind adding?

I have played the sims for probably 22 years...

[karenjanee]

added! I am a Sims 3, crosstitching kinda person

[rebecca_selene]

Added!

[goblinesque]

Hi! I'm also in my 30s, partnered and childfree, and we have the same dealbreakers. I'm a huge Sims fan (along with a bunch of other games) and love Disney too (and animals... and organising... and on and on... haha). I love your approach to witchcraft too. Mutuals?

[rebecca_selene]

Yes! Added!

[whoopsitswhump]

Hey, I realize that you posted this a while ago so you might not want new comments on it, but I saw that you're into original fiction and junk journaling and had to say hi! I'm trying to get more into writing original fiction, and I've never kept a junk journal, but it sounds cool as heck. So, uh, hi, I guess?

[rebecca_selene]

Hi! Added!

[whoopsitswhump]

Rad!

[indarkdirected]

Hey! Sounds like we have some things in common (crafting, reading, 30s adhd), mind if I add you?

[rebecca_selene]

Sounds great! Added!

[batlatte]

Yooo. Also audhd, childfree, crafty person! I am going to add you!

[rebecca_selene]

Hi! Added!