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[ex_deo48]

NAME: Selena
AGE: 21
INTERESTS & HOBBIES: anime/manga, BL, dogs, kpop (i am NOT a stan nor part of any fandoms, i enjoy the music and certain groups like BTS, LOONA, SHINee), makeup drama channels on youtube because guilty pleasure..., mobage (love live! and enstars particularly, trying out bang dream! so we'll see how that goes), sanrio (cinnamoroll, anyone?), online tcgs, video games (i'm an enthusiastic xbox player and LOVE MANY SERIES all across the board that is too lengthy to list here, if you mention one i probably like it. recently the new owner of a switch too!!)
LOOKING FOR: looking for some like-minded folk who doesn't mind comments on their posts, i've recently started using my own journal to write my personal thoughts and various rambles. it's public because i don't care who reads it, and i'm not the only person who's struggled with what i'm struggling with now. if you need someone to talk to, i'm here for you! i like talking to people who aren't assholes.
ALSO KNOWN AS: ecchis @ twitter - i don't really use it as much as i used to, but i do talk about the interests above as well as retweet a bunch of art (sometimes BL/NSFW). Selshie @ xbox - i mainly play SMITE and that's it. i also play neopets???? if you want that LOL

hi there, and nice to meet you! i doubt this is the case for anyone, but if you're a minor please don't interact since i don't relate to 16 year old problems or whatever, and am looking for mature people to talk to lmao. also, if you're just a weirdo, homophobic/transphobic/racist/maga freak STAY AWAY FROM ME! but yeah, i'm just looking for some new people to talk to here! if you read my first journal entry, it kinda goes into that a bit more as to why. i'm also asexual, a bit shy at first, but overall an interesting soul once you get to know me, i think. i totally sounded like an old person just now writing that. i've been subscribed to this community for years but have never done anything with it until now. um i guess you can read what i've written so far and figure out for yourself if you want to add me? ;; haha it's kinda explicit but whatever. thanks for reading!

Comments

[grayswandir]

Hi! I don't know that we have a lot in common in terms of fannish interests, but I found your journal post really interesting, and can surprisingly relate to a lot of it. Just to mention a few things: I'm also asexual, although I rarely bother to talk about it since people usually find it so weird (which confuses me, because I'm pretty sure everyone recognizes that sex is pretty friggin' weird). :P I also feel constantly apologetic about the fact that people have to look at me (nothing specific, as I'm not even overweight, but I just assume it's kind of terrible for people who talk to me to have to look at my face) -- so, yeah, awkward social interactions. And definitely no skirts or dresses. (I've actually felt like I was crossdressing every time I've worn a skirt. I identify as female but just... not that female, I guess.)

Anyway, I can't tell if we have much else in common, since you don't have an interests list or anything in your profile, so I'll leave it to your discretion to add me or not. I'm okay with it either way. :)

[ex_deo48]

Hi there! I wrote that pretty early in the morning in a bit of a stupor, so apologies if it was riddled with errors lol. I've been having a lot of trouble sleeping lately.

I don't really make it public either, partly because I don't think anyone's perception of me changes if they know that, and that asexuals in general have gotten a pretty bad rap lately. :/ I can totally relate to your feelings about dresses -- I have never been a super feminine girl so it, besides my image issues felt very out of place wearing one.

I looked over your journal and it's okay! I like that we're so different in a way, because I feel like I can learn from you. And what you write about is interesting! I'll add you back!